Models Chapter 6 Summary: The Three Fundamentals

The three ways a man can become more vulnerable and less needy are:

1. Lifestyle (honest living): Developing a lifestyle that is attractive and enriching.

2. Courage (honest action): Overcoming your fears and anxieties around your sexuality and socializing.

3. Communication (honest communication): Improving how well you communicate and express your emotions.

The way to improve in each of these fundamental categories is to express your vulnerability in each of them.

Your quality of lifestyle correlates directly with the quality of women you will attract. It includes personal care, job satisfaction, hobbies, etc.

The better your lifestyle, the easier everything else will be.

Improving and moving towards your ideal lifestyle is something you do for yourself, and as you do so, you will naturally attract women.

In order to create an attractive lifestyle you must first define what it is you want in life.

Once you know that, work towards making that life a reality.

This is about breaking through your mental barriers regarding approaching and escalating with women.

It is in direct correlation with the quantity of women you meet and attract.

Even if you are terrible in all other aspects, if you conquer fear and approach everyone you're attracted to, eventually you will find someone who reciprocates.

All fear around women is due to feeling inferior. You care more about her opinion of you than your own opinion of yourself.

If you see a woman and want to meet her, then not approaching her is being dishonest with yourself.

Honest communication is about learning how to express yourself.

It directly correlates with how efficiently you are able to attract women.

It includes having a good sense of humor, telling stories, charisma, expressing your sexuality, and the ability to connect with people. In the dating world this is often referred to as having “game.”

The quickest way to improve your love life is to identify the fundamentals you are weakest on and focus on improving them.

Chances are you are either socially anxious or socially disconnected.

Socially anxious men are usually good at honest communication, but bad at asking women out and escalating.

Socially disconnected men are the opposite. They have little fear of approaching and escalating, but are socially awkward. They usually do the wrong things at the wrong times.

The aim is to create an awesome lifestyle and become socially connected and fearless, all at the same time.

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