The Message Game Summary: Chapter 3

You are probably getting a lot wrong in your message game, but that’s okay.

It is not about being perfect. Neither is it about being entertaining. This is all about psychology.

Mistake 1: Trying to entertain her. If you aim to entertain her, in most cases, it just leads to you ONLY entertaining her.

Mistake 2: Trying to get to know her. Do that in person instead. When face-to-face you can convey emotion much better.

Of course, some girls will prefer to get to know you a bit first before meeting, which is fine, but don’t take too long to arrange to meet.

Mistake 3: Messaging without aim. Remember, the whole aim is to get her number and then to meet.

Even if you have an argument with your girlfriend, it is better to meet than to message.

A lot of Tinder profiles are made so girls can get more Instagram followers. More often than not, these girls are a waste of your time as they will probably never actually meet you.

So if her bio suggests that you message her on Instagram instead, don’t bother.

Also, if she gives you her Instagram profile instead of her number, chances are you are wasting your time. You want her number or WhatsApp.

Don’t put her on a pedestal. Constantly showering her with compliments, worshiping, or seeking her validation; it elevates her value above your own. It's fine to tell a girl she's pretty, and she'll appreciate it, but don't overdo it.

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