The Message Game Summary: Chapters 9, 10 and 11 - Dealing with Rejection

There is only ONE goal when you first start messaging a girl.

That is to meet.

You are not trying to strategize or negotiate sex. All you want to do is meet.

Once you meet, you can move things forward.

If she won’t meet you, then it means she is not interested. Move on.

If a girl ignores you, rejects you, insults you, or says or does anything negative towards you, just ignore it.

Do not be reactive. Do not keep sending her message after message. Do not fall into her frame.

Ignore the negative comment or action and continue as normal.

A ‘flake’ is someone that frequently cancels plans or fails to show up for dates.

This type of person either doesn’t care about you or is too disorganized.

You may feel rejected, but you don’t want this type of person anyway.

Stay unreactive. Forget this person and move on to the next one.

When a girl cancels on you, it doesn’t automatically mean she is a flake.

Things happen in life, in your life and her life. There are many real reasons to cancel a date, especially if it is with someone you just met on a dating app.

When a girl cancels, or if you need to cancel, the best thing to do is just arrange for another time. If she keeps giving excuses then she is obviously not interested. Just move on.

If she is interested, then she will also put in the effort to rearrange the date.

When a girl repeatedly uses phrases such as “I don’t do that for a man” or “I want a gentleman who would do this for me” or “if you can’t live up to my expectations” or “it’s a man’s job to do this for me”, it is a red flag for princess mentality.

It’s fine for a girl to have standards, in fact, it’s good, but if she expects the guy to do everything all the time, you will have problems.

When a girl expects you to succumb to her every whim, you just become her bitch.

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